6. Speaking of the Children ( Barbara Holland)
This essay
delightfully examined the ideas of having more than one child and the
consequent expenses of parents.
The writer of this essay and her husband both have
jobs. The writer believes that it is very important to have a private talk
between husband and wife about half an hour in peace and privacy for the happy
married life. Such kind of talk maintains familial happiness. The writer has
plural children, she doesn't want her children to listen the private talk
between herself and her husband. Instead she wants them to clean their room and
play with their play things nicely and quietly. However the children want attention
of their parents and disturb them. As a result, the parents can't have any talk
in peace and privacy.
One child is like a part of our body. Parents can
brainwash the child and make whatever they want. They can guide, shape, instruct
proper manners and behaviours. Moreover provide each and every facility for the
overall growth advancement and progress of the child. However all this aren't
possible if the parents have plural children..
If there are plural children in family parents have
to lose their freedom and pleasure. The family expense is also very high. They
cannot provide the facilities to the children which are necessary for their
quality life. The things and goods of the house are scattered everywhere. The
parents can't use the telephone and television for their own purpose. Plural children
are the counter culture of the family. They behave in way that their parents
don't like and the parents become helpless. They can't control their children
and also they are unable to give proper care. The children don't follow the
ideas of parents and the parents have to spend a lot of time and energy for the
children. They are pushed backward slowly and slowly into the life of their
children. They don't have their own
life, freedom and pleasure. The parents having plural children have to talk to
those people whom they don't know but their children know to them. They also
can't go far away at holiday places. They can't make their children obedient.
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